Recently as my life, activities and responsibilities grow, I’m realizing more and more that as new opportunities come to be, there are always going to be new ways to grow, learn and improve.
Right now, I’m working on my health and fitness goals (always a challenge in the winter time so happy that Spring is on its way!) . Anyone in NY, or who watches the news, knows that in NYC we got our fair share of snow, rain and frigid weather. What that means for a “summer baby” like me? Hibernating and turning to warm, filling, winter foods and snuggling up indoors as much as possible. What that means for my waistline? Well…we won’t go there. Bottom line, I know I’m not alone is saying that as quick as the winter weight came on is as quick as I’d like it to come off.
Now for some of my (lame) excuses for not getting to the gym and making it the priority:
- Its too cold out
- I’ll go tomorrow
- after keeping up with my busy schedule, and focusing a lot of my energy on motivating others, getting to the gym to motivate myself was the last thing I had energy for?
However, here are things I also know to be true:
- I love being active
- when I work out, I feel happier, more relaxed (and able to ACT instead of REACT) and less stressed
- losing the extra lbs makes me feel strong, healthy and confident and who doesn’t want that?
So I had a few choices…and here’s what I chose, that’s WORKING (and working WELL)!
1 – Create Accountability: About 2 months ago, I enlisted the support from a friend with similar fitness goals. We vowed to keep each other motivated and in check. We also committed to a Monday night spin class + weight training class (2 hours!) and promised to text and encourage each other on Mondays. BONUS: having a gym buddy held me accountable each week, I didn’t want to let her OR myself down by bailing. Committing to a class also helped me view working out as just as important as any other appointment on my calendar.
2 – Enlist a Professional (or personal trainer in this case): As someone who is extremely busy juggling MANY different projects at once, the LAST thing I want to do at the gym is THINK. This may sound silly, but at the end of the day do I really want to PLAN one more thing? No! So, I enlisted the trainer of my trustee personal trainer Derrick, and let him give me a run for my fitness money and do the thinking FOR me. He know what my goals are, he knows how to push me (a step further than I would on my own), and he is invested in my success. Win – Win!
3 – GOYA! (Watch my Get Off You’re a**! Video): The NUMBER #1 most important thing that you can do to reach your goals (especially fitness goals) is CONSISTENT ACTION. Get Off Your….you know how it goes! The key to fitness success is consistency and repetition. Going to the gym ONE time will not give you the results you are looking for. But frequent exercise, and a healthy diet will.
These are just (3) of the ways that I was able to kick my fitness goals in high gear over the past few months. I am feeling stronger and more empowered as each week passes, and I want the same for you! Point: There is nothing more attractive (in life, romance and business) than a healthy, radiant and confident person. So, go out there and G.O.Y.A.!

